13 Signs He Wants a Relationship but Is Scared

#3 He doesn’t plan anything with you. He can’t think about the future with you. Don’t even plan for the summer or even next week, it’s too much for him. Everything is about now and this very moment, cut the inspirational yoga crap, buddy.

#4 He’s hot and cold. Katy Perry was right, I can’t believe I said that. But she was. He’ll act like your boyfriend one minute. Then the second he remembers what he’s doing, he closes up and ignores you for a couple days. This happened to me, it was so frustrating, but it works.

#5 He’s a master in the bedroom. This guy rocks your world, but that’s because he’s had a lot of experience. Like, a lot. So, that already shows you what type of past he’s had. Also, if most of your relationship activities are sex-related, that’s a good sign that he’s not committed to you.

#6 Parents? What parents? For most of these guys, their parents don’t exist. You know they’re alive, but you’ll never meet them. Bringing you home shows his parents he’s interested in you. It also shows you, that he really likes you. If he doesn’t want that impression to rub off on you, he’ll keep his family far away.

#7 He avoids any relationship topics. Yeah, I know, you’ve brought up the whole “what are we” topic and suddenly he’s nowhere to be seen. He doesn’t want to talk about it because he likes how things are now. Why change something that’s comfortable for him? He’s “with” you but not really “with” you.

#8 He’s weighing the risks. He likes being with you, but he’s still looking around and seeing if something better comes along. Why should he commit to you when there are girls left, right, and center? Maybe he views relationships as a risk to his freedom. 

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