Sometimes, it’s hard to read the signs he wants a relationship but is scared to ask you out, or if he’s just not into you. Here’s how to tell the difference.
We’ve all experienced one of these guys. I mean, it’s basically what Sex in the City is based on. Sure, it’s fun to watch it happen to Samantha or Carrie on TV, but when it’s happening to you, it’s a whole other story. You need to understand the signs he wants a relationship but is scared to truly understand what is going on in your relationship.
I know you want to try to get him to break his fear and be with you, but it’s not going to happen. You can’t force him to get over his fear. Unfortunately, it is a sign of immaturity, and you can’t make someone grow up.
The 13 signs he wants a relationship but is scared
I’m only telling you this because I recently had my heart destroyed by a guy scared to commit. Did he like me? Oh yes, he did. Did he want to be with me? Yes. Did I get rejected when I told him my feelings for him? Yup.
Sure, he wanted a relationship, but he was too scared. It’s been two months, and I still can’t bring myself to meet new guys. So, to prevent this from happening to you, you need to be aware of the signs and be strong enough to know when to stop pursuing him.
I know you like him, but if he’s showing these signs, you need to protect your heart.
#1 He’s all about the mixed signals. When he’s with you, it’s amazing, you two click right off the bat. But when you and your guy aren’t hanging out, there’s not much going on.
Listen, these guys are the masters of sending mixed signals. Why? Because they like you, but there’s something that makes them not want to commit. So they hang around you all the time, but then don’t talk to you, blah blah blah. It’s a circular pattern because they struggle between what they want.
#2 He’s had no other previous relationships. Well, this is a sign he has some issues. If he’s never had a relationship before lasting more than six months, there’s a reason why. He obviously has some commitment issues to sort out.