Is your boyfriend losing interest in you? Use these 22 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend to find out if your guy’s just not into you anymore!
When you first fell in love with your guy, you may have believed that he’s the best boyfriend in the whole world.
He woos you, awes you and impresses you.
But as the days turn to months, something begins to change.
He seems more distant, or worse, he doesn’t have time for you anymore.
If you’ve experienced this stage in the relationship, perhaps it’s time for you to take a deeper look into your relationship.
How guys fall in love
Guys take time to fall in love.
Of course, they’re infatuated by you from the very beginning.
But love takes a while to kick in.
As he woos and pursues you, he gives it his all to get your attention and make you fall for him.
But once he wins you over completely, that’s when he starts to analyze just how much he wants to be with you.
A man’s mind is programmed to sow his seed. And when he’s done with the deed, he twiddles his thumbs and wonders what he’s supposed to do next.
Should he stay in love with you, or should he just get back to hanging out with his friends and ignore you?
Are you worth sacrificing his lifestyle for? And most importantly, are you worth loving forever considering the fact that being with you means he can’t sow his wild oats into any other woman for… ever!
Why do guys fall out of love?
The infatuation period is always a blurry haze for both the sexes. And only when the magical dust of infatuation begins to settle does the real question enter the picture. Is it love or was it just lust?
And sometimes, the guy and the girl may just start to drift away from each other because they don’t communicate with each other.
At the start of the romance, infatuation holds the couple together. But once infatuation loses its hold, communication and trust should replace the infatuation immediately, or one or both of you may just end up getting bored with the relationship.
Signs of a bad boyfriend
How can you tell if your boyfriend is losing interest in you? Well, he starts to take on all the traits of a bad boyfriend. He’s mean and rude, angry and annoying. All the time!
Instead of confronting the situation, a guy may decide to deal with it internally by distancing himself from you. And for a girl, this is the worst feeling in the world, the helplessness of knowing something’s not right, and yet having to tag along for the ride in pure misery and confusion.
The best way to know if you’re being used is by trusting your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right in your relationship, chances are, it isn’t!
22 big early warning signs of a bad boyfriend
If you want to nip the bad boy in the bud and walk out of the relationship before it hurts you or breaks you, just keep an eye on these 22 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend.
And if you do find your boyfriend in the wrong here, communicate with him so he can realize what he’s doing. After all, it’s easy to take something important for granted. But if he still continues to hurt you through his behavior, perhaps it’s time to walk out for good.
#1 He takes time. He often doesn’t answer your calls immediately even if he isn’t at work. And he always takes a lot of time to text you or call you back even when he’s not busy.