Attachment is bad. That’s what she has come to realize. And this is why.
She doesn’t allow herself to get attached anymore because she knows that attachment eventually just leads to terrible occurrences and hurt feelings. She knows that attachment is what forces her to be needy and clingy – towards people and things that she has no right to own or manipulate. She knows that it’s attachment that leads to her being controlling and abusive towards others.
She knows that it’s attachment that just fuels her selfishness – that teaches her to be ruthless in the pursuit of the things that she wants regardless of how others might feel. She knows that it’s attachment that leads to her dreaming up scenarios for herself that aren’t just meant to happen.