You’ve probably paid witness to this scenario before. In fact, it happens way more often than people typically think it would. You see an amazingly kind, sweet, smart, and caring woman fall for a guy who is absolutely none of those things. In fact, it’s like she’s practically dating her polar opposite. Sure, you’ve heard of the phrase that opposites attract. But you still can’t manage to wrap your head around the fact that such a great woman would choose to settle with a guy who barely even makes the cut of passing as average. He’s less than average. He’s downright terrible and toxic. He’s bad for her and for everyone who comes into contact with him.
So why does this seem to happen all too often? What magical spell do these terrible men cast on such amazing ladies to get them to fall in love? It has got to be magic, right? There’s no logical explanation for all of this, is there?
Well, there is. In fact, here are six of them:
1. Plenty of great women are still insecure about their own worth.
There are plenty of very perceptive women who have a great eye for finding the great qualities in other people and objects but they might not actually be able to see the greatness in themselves. A lot of these great women are too humble to a fault. They don’t think themselves worthy of amazing relationships and great guys because they don’t really see their own sense of self-worth.
2. Some women just make the mistake of falling into a bad habit of attracting terrible men.
It’s like an endless cycle that not a lot of women are able to break out of on their own. They date one guy who just happens to be so bad for them and on some subconscious level, she keeps on dating the same kind of guy while also expecting a different result. It takes a great deal of strength and self-awareness for a woman to just demand better for herself. One has to always decide for herself to put a stop to all of this destructive relationship madness.