You probably feel really bad about where you are in life right now. It hurts to be merely an option in the eyes of the people who matter the most to you. And yet there you are, you still maintain your patience and your resilience. You still maintain the hope that you’re eventually going to get bumped up to priority status. You know that you have a great personality.
You know that you have lots of things to offer to the world. You definitely know that you deserve to be the top choice for many people. You deserve to be getting better treatment than what you’re getting now. And yet there you are, allowing yourself to remain an option. Why do you do that? Why do you subject yourself to this kind of torment and torture?
Maybe you are just a little too kind, thoughtful, and generous for your own good. Maybe you have a tendency to just let people walk all over you because you have such a tender and soft heart.