Relationships, as firm as they may seem, are fragile. Learn how the power of words you use can change the direction of your relationship in no time.
A relationship has many needs to be successful.
But, almost all these needs are subconscious.
In fact, you won’t even realize you’re catering to these needs of your own perfect relationship unless you’re starting to fall out of love and need to make an effort just to be nice to your lover.
Romantic gestures and memories, and communication and pillow talk may be key requirements of a great relationship but there’s another subtle detail almost none of us bother about.
And that’s the power of words in a relationship.
The power of words in a relationship
Have you ever thought about how you speak to your partner, or how you treat them in private or public?
The kind of words you choose or the way you behave can have a much deeper impact than you can imagine.
The words you choose can make your relationship a lot better, or at times, it can push your partner away from you forever.
You may communicate well, share your dreams, respect your lover and even be great in bed, but the way you use the power of words could still affect your relationship on a subconscious level.
The words we hear and the effect it has on us
The power of words in a relationship is a subconscious energy that balances the relationship. The words you choose and the way you say something can make your lover feel closer to you.
Even as individuals, words play a big part in our lives. A compliment is a compliment, but yet, the words that are used to compliment you makes all the difference, doesn’t it?
On the other hand, words that you personally associate with negativity affect you more. If someone speaks about the traits of low confidence to a person who believes they’re not confident, it would affect them more than it would to a person who doesn’t believe it’s a negative trait of theirs.
And just like that, in our romantic lives too, the words you choose while speaking with your partner can subconsciously affect their views on the relationship.
You may believe you’re sensitive and sweet because you never criticize anyone or never pick an argument with anyone. But your partner may subconsciously believe that you’re rude at times, or perhaps even dominant. And that’s all because of the words you choose in your conversation while talking about matters close to both your hearts.
Even many first dates which you assumed went perfectly during the date may have led to a dead end with your date not calling you back and you may have no idea why. But perhaps, it’s all because of the words you chose to express your ideas.
Your words and your partner
How you speak to your lover affects the way they think of you, the relationship and the way they approach their own life. Their motivation and inspiration depends on the way you choose your words around them.
Kind words make us feel safer. Criticisms make us feel weaker and low on confidence. Angry words make us angry. And reassuring words comfort us.