#3 He forgets about important events. I don’t even mean birthdays or anniversaries, I’m talking about the other events in your life. If you have a big meeting at work and he forgets that it ever occurred, he’s clearly not concerned about the big events in your life.
#4 He doesn’t like to talk about your future together. Maybe it’s just me, but I like to plan. I plan everything from beginning to end. This is never how it plays out in the end, but I like to plan regardless.
If you talk to him about the future, like children, marriage, and living arrangements, and he shuts down, this is one of those big, subconscious signs he doesn’t love you. If he loved you, he would know whether or not he sees children in your future, or if he wants to get married.
#5 They don’t make an effort to talk to you when you’re apart. Life separates couples for short periods of time. In that case, we communicate via technology. We text, call, or Skype each other to stay in touch. This is your only form of communication while apart, so if he doesn’t seem to care to chat with you, then he likely doesn’t love you.
#6 He doesn’t understand your job. Some of us have confusing professions that the general public may not understand. We’ve all gotten the question “So, what do you do for a living?” I can’t even count the number of times somebody has asked me what public relations was. If he doesn’t know what you do for a living, then he doesn’t care. If he doesn’t care about you, then he doesn’t love you.