I love you may be the three most powerful combination of words in the English language. A lot of us say it on a daily basis to the people who mean the most to us. It’s a very basic means of acknowledging another person’s worth in our lives. It is the essential tool for emotionally connecting to another person with whom we share intimacy and endearment. But sometimes, just when we’re getting to know people in a relationship, we may have the irrational urge to blurt these three words out. We have to be able to take a step back and restrain ourselves.
While saying I love you to your partner has its place in every relationship, it should all come in perfect time.
1. True love always needs its time to grow.
True love can never be rushed. True love always needs its time underground to cultivate and develop into something real. You can’t force it to grow on your preferred time. It will naturally find its way to the surface when the time is right. If you want your expression of love to be as genuine as possible, then make sure that your love in itself is already fully grown and cultivated.
2. Saying I Love You won’t fix the problems in your relationship.
A lot of people will use saying I love you as a way to get out of trouble in the relationship. Love doesn’t have the power to fix all problems in the world. Love alone cannot sustain all relationships. You need to understand that as early as now. And if you think that saying I love you is enough to fix your problems as a couple, then it just goes to show that you don’t really understand what love is.
3. Your openness can be intimidating.
It doesn’t matter whether your feelings are genuine or not. It doesn’t matter whether you say it sincerely or poorly. You have to understand that people will receive what you say in different manners. You have to know your partner well enough before you admit your love. Sometimes, people will get intimidated and be turned off by your openness. So be very cautious before you start expressing your love for another person. It’s not just a matter of whether you’re ready to say it. You have to know if your partner is ready to hear it from you. – Continue reading on the next page
4. You don’t want to take anything away from the perfect moment.
There’s nothing quite like the first time you admit your love for another person. It’s a magical experience and it’s absolutely indescribable. You don’t want to take away the magic from that perfect moment of ripeness by admitting your love at the wrong time. You have to make sure that the timing is right so as not to take anything away from the beauty of the initial admission.