How to Be a Good Wife: And Be the Best Thing a Man Can Have

A good wife is someone who cares enough to research how to be a good wife. Take heart, no one is perfect, all you have to do is love him perfectly.

When I chose to write about how to be a good wife, all I could do was roll my own eyes. If you asked my husband if I was a good wife, I am quite sure he would say “maybe,” but only out of fear. We all want to be the perfect wife, don’t we?

We want to be the woman we all grew up watching on television who is kind-hearted, who laughs when her husband fumbles something, or is okay when he goes out seven nights a week with friends. The problem is that being a good wife is an illusion that destroys the way we see ourselves as well as the way that men think their wives should be.

How to be a good wife – The 7 things that make all the difference

No one is perfect. I mean, maybe Mother Teresa was, maybe she wasn’t, who is to tell. All I know is that when the kids are crying, I have been locked in my house all day, and my husband comes home and pretends that I don’t exist, it is really, really, hard to be a good wife.

So, what does a good wife look like? Well, I say all the time that when I come back in my next life, I want to have a wife. When I envision the perfect wife for my next life, she possesses these 7 qualities.

If you are asking how to be a good wife, there is a good chance that you think you aren’t good enough. Take heart; the fact that you even care makes you pretty damn amazing. If I had a dollar for every time that I saw a woman berate her husband, make a honey-do list that takes up the entire weekend, or say goodbye every weekend to go for another “girls getaway,” I would be a very wealthy woman.

Did I mention that if I had a lot of money I might be more apt to be the perfect wife because I could sit around, let someone take care of the kids, the laundry, the house cleaning and also make me look pretty? The biggest tip for how to be a good wife is just to try to breathe and take life as it comes. Here are 7 tips for how to be a good wife.

#1 Take a breath. It is hard to not freak out when the kids are running around, the house is a mess, you are late for a meeting, and your husband can’t be bothered with what you have going on. The thing is that anyone would freak out in your shoes.

If you want to know how to be a good wife, give yourself a break and take a breath before reacting. It is typically when we are in the heat of battle that we snap, and the most likely candidate to get the brunt is the guy we said “I do” to.

#2 Don’t think that marriage is a fairytale. Most likely if you are asking how to be a good wife, you have subscribed to the notion that there is such a thing. I have been alive for a long time, and what I do know is that the notion of perfect is… not perfect.

The couple that you think is perfect, the husband that you think is perfect, and, yes, even the wife that you think is perfect, isn’t. She may be more patient than you, but that is just her personality style. Trust me, whatever you think she has over you, she doesn’t. She is probably just better about hiding the crazy or displacing it elsewhere.

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