#10 Be social. The only way to meet people, men, in particular, is if you’re social. Whether you’re at a bar, chess club, or running club, you need to socialize. You don’t have to be the social butterfly, but talking to people around you will relax the atmosphere and your own nerves, allowing you to comfortably start a conversation with a guy you’re into.
#11 Don’t overthink. You may be freaking out or overanalyzing some things before, during, and after you talk to a guy, but don’t. All this will do is get you down a path of insecurity and fear, two things that you don’t need in your life. If you overanalyze, you’ll feel overwhelmed and will pull out of the situation.
#12 Feel sexy and confident. If you feel sexy, well, he’s going to see it. Before you go figuring out how to pick up guys, you want to feel good about yourself when you approach him. If you’re nervous and timid, he’s not going to respond well. Think of it like this, when a guy approaches you, the confident ones are usually the ones that get the attention, right? Same thing here.
#13 You’re going to get rejected. Yeah, I’m sorry, but it’s true. I know we like to think that every guy wants us, but that, my friends, is a lie. Your ego must accept that. But just because someone rejects you doesn’t mean you can’t continue on.
Do you know how many times I’ve been rejected? Okay, I wasn’t keeping count but at least a minimum ten times. But that didn’t stop me.
Knowing how to pick up guys isn’t easy, especially since we’re used to being the ones approached. However, put the power into your own hands and go for what you want.