#5 Don’t go out with a gang of women. There’s literally nothing more intimidating than a woman surrounded by a pack of women all staring and giggling at you while you talk to a guy. If you’re going to hit on a guy, make sure your friends aren’t glaring at you from across the room.
In these cases, it’s best to be a one-woman show. Or if you need a wing woman, bring a close friend, not the entire crew.
#6 Be prepared. No, I don’t mean condoms, but you should always carry some in your bag, FYI. What I’m talking about is what happens if your phone dies and you wanted to take his number? What if his phone is dead too?
In your bag, carry a pen and either a napkin or piece of paper. That way, if you need to, you can give him your number/take his number the old-fashioned way.
#7 Just say hi. I know, you’re probably thinking, could it be that easy? Well, yeah. Just start the conversation by smiling and saying hi. If he’s smart, he’ll clue into the fact that you’re into him, and he’ll reply. Most of the time, you don’t need a cheesy pickup line or to trip in front of him in order to start a conversation.
#8 Ask him to dance. I know, this sounds a little high school, but it works like a charm. If you’re at the bar or near the dance floor and see a cute guy next to you, just turn to him and ask him if he wants to dance. If he says no, go to the dance floor and dance anyways. You can’t lose. Either way, you get to dance.
#9 Use your surroundings as topics. If you’re nervous and unsure of what to talk about, well, use what’s around you. Maybe you’re at a bar and the music is really good or you’re at the gym and it’s his leg day *he’s a keeper*. The point is, you have an endless source of conversation material that’s literally surrounding you.