15 Sweet Ways to Make a Guy Feel Needed and Wanted

Does your boyfriend ever tell you that you’re too independent? Here are 15 easy ways to make your guy feel more needed and wanted in your life.

You may be fiercely independent and in control of your life.

But does your way of life ever make your boyfriend feel unnecessary or unwanted?

Every guy wants to date a girl who’s in control of her life.

And no guy likes a girl who’s too clingy or needy all the time!

But sometimes, your independent streak could make your guy feel undesired, or even make him feel like he’s unwanted baggage in your life.

And if that ever happens, that’s a sure sign that things may not remain so smooth in your relationship.

How to make your guy feel needed and wanted

A guy needs to feel desired in a relationship.

When he feels like he’s wanted and needed, he feels good about himself and the relationship.

He assumes he plays an important part in your life, and that makes him try harder to be a nicer boyfriend because he believes his behavior towards you has an impact on your life.

Dramatically put, your guy wants to believe that your life would be ruined if he didn’t exist in it.

Now, of course, that’s being overly dramatic, but I hope you get what I mean!

Why men love feeling needed

A man wants to feel like a man. And he feels like a man when he’s needed and desired by a special someone, you. It’s in his evolutionary genes, he loves the role of being a protector. And he feels good about himself when he sees himself as the provider of your happiness and security.

But if you ever make him feel like an unnecessary appendage in your life, chances are, he’ll subconsciously start searching for someone who needs him and wants him badly in their life!

15 sweet things you can do to make him feel needed and wanted

It’s not hard to make a man feel needed and wanted. And almost always, it’s the little things that have the biggest impact.

Just keep these 15 things you can do for him in mind, and as long as you use these tips to display your need for him, you’d leave him beaming with pride and happiness, all because you made him feel more like a real man!

#1 Don’t reject him. Never reject his effort to make you happy. If your boyfriend sneaks up on you from behind to hug you, or if he messes the kitchen up just a little while preparing breakfast for you, don’t rebuke him for that. He’ll feel stupid for trying to do something nice for you, and he’ll hate you for it.

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